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Well, it’s now been about 6 weeks since I lost my Instagram account (for the second time in 2021). It has taken me a while to write this blog as I have so many thoughts and emotions in my head that I wanted to get out onto paper, and this whole situation has been very upsetting, and triggering to my depression and anxiety, so I had to write it in chunks, as to not get overwhelmed or depressed.
My Instagram account is very important to me…probably more so than just the average, casual user. I use my Instagram profile as a portfolio for my work, a means of creating income, and fostering a global community. I also use my platform to share my voice and ideas, and a message of self love, body and sex positivity, and mental health awareness, all things that are very important to me. My account had FINALLY just been verified earlier this year (my Facebook page has been verified for over 6 years now), and I worked so hard on all my content, and building up my following. This account is my community and online family. Half a million followers, over 10 thousand posts, 5 million impressions a month, and 10 years of hard work, content, art, life, memories, contacts, and community, is now gone. 75% of the work that I get as a freelance model comes through my Instagram account. I've already noticed a significant drop in income and opportunities since losing my account, and this also effects my ability to work as a content creator and influencer. This is especially rough during a pandemic that has already seriously affected my ability to travel, work, and bring income in through in person workshops, coaching, appearances,and photoshoots. I rely on my Instagram not only for my livelihood and career, but also as a connection to family, friends, and support systems.
On December 12th, I checked my Instagram and was hit with the message below, that my account had been disabled. My heart sank into my stomach, and my stomach jumped into my throat. This is a huge issue for my industry, (and Instagram), and this same thing has happened to so many of my friends and colleagues over the past year. I had long said that losing my account would be one of my worst, professional nightmares, and would likely mean the beginning of the end of “Ruby Roxx” as a career, which is why I am SO careful about what I post, and make sure to always post within instagram’s guidelines. This sort of account disabling had already happened once in 2021, in April, so I tried not to panic, and tried to think positively, that I would be able to get it back. The last time this happened, I was able to get it reinstated successfully in less than 24 hours, by sending reports and asking my followers to do the same. I thought to myself, “it must just be a mistake or glitch, and i’ll get it back”, but unfortunately, over a month has passed, and I still haven’t been successful in getting it back, or, getting in touch with Instagram.
My Instagram account is very important to me…probably more so than just the average, casual user. I use my Instagram profile as a portfolio for my work, a means of creating income, and fostering a global community. I also use my platform to share my voice and ideas, and a message of self love, body and sex positivity, and mental health awareness, all things that are very important to me. My account had FINALLY just been verified earlier this year (my Facebook page has been verified for over 6 years now), and I worked so hard on all my content, and building up my following. This account is my community and online family. Half a million followers, over 10 thousand posts, 5 million impressions a month, and 10 years of hard work, content, art, life, memories, contacts, and community, is now gone. 75% of the work that I get as a freelance model comes through my Instagram account. I've already noticed a significant drop in income and opportunities since losing my account, and this also effects my ability to work as a content creator and influencer. This is especially rough during a pandemic that has already seriously affected my ability to travel, work, and bring income in through in person workshops, coaching, appearances,and photoshoots. I rely on my Instagram not only for my livelihood and career, but also as a connection to family, friends, and support systems.
On December 12th, I checked my Instagram and was hit with the message below, that my account had been disabled. My heart sank into my stomach, and my stomach jumped into my throat. This is a huge issue for my industry, (and Instagram), and this same thing has happened to so many of my friends and colleagues over the past year. I had long said that losing my account would be one of my worst, professional nightmares, and would likely mean the beginning of the end of “Ruby Roxx” as a career, which is why I am SO careful about what I post, and make sure to always post within instagram’s guidelines. This sort of account disabling had already happened once in 2021, in April, so I tried not to panic, and tried to think positively, that I would be able to get it back. The last time this happened, I was able to get it reinstated successfully in less than 24 hours, by sending reports and asking my followers to do the same. I thought to myself, “it must just be a mistake or glitch, and i’ll get it back”, but unfortunately, over a month has passed, and I still haven’t been successful in getting it back, or, getting in touch with Instagram.
Over the years, I’ve had posts taken down on more than one occasion, but once I appealed the decision, 95% of those posts were put back up, and deemed as “not violating guidelines”. The other 5%, also didn't violate guidelines, but, was I not successful in my appeal report, and they weren't reposted. One of the big issues with Instagram, is that “violations” still shows up on my account, even if the decision to delete the post has been overturned. However, Instagarms punishment of my content and account didn't stop there. When my posts started getting taken down, my account would also be shadow banned (meaning only a fraction of my followers would even see my posts, for weeks, months or years at a time, and my profile and username wasn't searchable by many users), and features of the app would be disabled or unusable. For example, I wasn't allowed to go live for over a year on Instagram, and my app wouldn't update with new features. Every time a post was deleted, a message would pop up saying I was at risk of having my account disabled, but then again, nearly every time, my appeal would prove that my posts were well within guidelines, and they were reposted. Now, I’m not sure if a troll is reporting my posts, or if Instagram’s robotic AI system is targeting me, and accounts like mine. It’s probably a bit of both, but either way, having my account deleted, an account that was WELL within guidelines, is beyond unfair and honestly, devastating to anyone who relies on social media to promote their work, and sustain their businesses and income.
I am all for rules and guidelines. I am a rule follower, and understand why fair guidelines and TOS (Terms of Service) need to be in place and enforced online…however, my issue is the misogynistic double standard that some of these guidelines hold, and the blatant hypocrisy and inequitable application of these rules between accounts on Instagram. In other words, when accounts that are following guidelines are punished, yet other accounts, which blatantly break the rules, are allowed to continue to post without repercussion this is a clear demonstration of the way in which certain accounts and creators are being unfairly targeted. I am a curvy woman, and a body and sex positive model who has an a passion for lingerie, and boudoir imagery, so of course, my content is on the sexier side, but, it is also professional, and artistic, and creative, and personal, and well within guidelines. I post nothing racier than what you would see at a beach, or at the mall in a lingerie store. I see misinformation, bullying, hate, violence, racism, and straight up pornography on Instagram EVERY day (which by the way, are all against IG’s terms of service) yet those accounts and users are allowed to continue to post without any actions being taken against them.
I am all for rules and guidelines. I am a rule follower, and understand why fair guidelines and TOS (Terms of Service) need to be in place and enforced online…however, my issue is the misogynistic double standard that some of these guidelines hold, and the blatant hypocrisy and inequitable application of these rules between accounts on Instagram. In other words, when accounts that are following guidelines are punished, yet other accounts, which blatantly break the rules, are allowed to continue to post without repercussion this is a clear demonstration of the way in which certain accounts and creators are being unfairly targeted. I am a curvy woman, and a body and sex positive model who has an a passion for lingerie, and boudoir imagery, so of course, my content is on the sexier side, but, it is also professional, and artistic, and creative, and personal, and well within guidelines. I post nothing racier than what you would see at a beach, or at the mall in a lingerie store. I see misinformation, bullying, hate, violence, racism, and straight up pornography on Instagram EVERY day (which by the way, are all against IG’s terms of service) yet those accounts and users are allowed to continue to post without any actions being taken against them.
So let’s talk about what I could have possibly posted that might have warranted my account being deleted. I honestly wouldn’t have much to post that would ACTUALLY go against guidelines anyways! The guidelines state no female nipples, but I mostly model lingerie, so my nipples are generally, always covered. On the off chance that a nip slip happens, I make sure to blur/censor it, if I even decide to post it on Instagram in the first place. Here are a few examples of some of my posts that have been taken down, and also, some posts from other larger pages and celebrities. I guarantee you, if you were to report any of the images from these accounts, it would come back saying they don’t violate community guidelines…because they don't. But neither do mine. So why do my posts get taken down, and why do my posts violate guidelines? Why do I even have to go through the appeal process? And even if my posts are put back up, why does the violation still show up on my account? Celebrities and huge brands accounts, like Britney Spears, Miley Cyrus, and Playboy Magazine, are allowed to post whatever they like, (nudity, nipples, and even pubic hair) and do so often, without any issue. There are accounts dedicated to nude photography and modelling, with millions of followers that are allowed to post, yet I am not allowed to. What is the difference? Make it make sense, Instagram!
Examples of posts on Instagram that are promoted and have millions of likes and comments | Examples of my posts that have been taken down for "violating guidelines" Photo Gloss Boudoir |
 pubic hair in the shower is ok to post as long as youre Playboy |  But a photo of me fully covered, in a shower, gets deleted within hours of posting. Photo Lindee Heffner |
 |  Photo Alicia Marie Photography |
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 |  This photo, while fully covered, did show an outline of nipple (it was -7 out when we were shooting), but was censored/edited out, and the post was still deleted for breaking guidelines. Photo Alicia Marie Photography |
Now, I want to make it very clear, I’m not saying that these examples and photos are wrong in any way, or shouldn't be on Instagram. I am huge fans of Playboy, Britney, Miley, and any and all other accounts and humans that choose to share their art, bodies, and creativity with the world. These are, beautiful photos, and works of art and self expression. But why are they allowed to post these, yet, my posts, showing far less, are being taken down?
Let's not forget the misogynistic double standard that men can post shirtless photos and ‘men’s nipples’ are even written into the TOS as fine, but ‘womens nipples’ are not allowed. Everytime I see a shirtless man on social media or daytime tv, I am filled with rage! Rage because of the misogynistic double standard, that it is perfectly socially acceptable for men to parade around shirtless on TV, all over social media, and even in public; however, female nipples are shrouded in shame and judgement, and hidden away, banished from public view. Newsflash…everyone has nipples. They are not blasphemous, or evil, or inherently sexual, and neither is the human body, or my Instagram account. If you saw a close up photo of a female nipple and a male nipple next to each other you wouldn't be able to tell the difference between the two...because there is no difference. This is 2022, not 1952.
Let's not forget the misogynistic double standard that men can post shirtless photos and ‘men’s nipples’ are even written into the TOS as fine, but ‘womens nipples’ are not allowed. Everytime I see a shirtless man on social media or daytime tv, I am filled with rage! Rage because of the misogynistic double standard, that it is perfectly socially acceptable for men to parade around shirtless on TV, all over social media, and even in public; however, female nipples are shrouded in shame and judgement, and hidden away, banished from public view. Newsflash…everyone has nipples. They are not blasphemous, or evil, or inherently sexual, and neither is the human body, or my Instagram account. If you saw a close up photo of a female nipple and a male nipple next to each other you wouldn't be able to tell the difference between the two...because there is no difference. This is 2022, not 1952.
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Examples of how shirtless men, and mens nipples are celebrated, praised, and socially accepted. A woman could never appear topless on daytime TV. Why is one ok but the other isn't?
Instagram account @genderlessnipples that showcases the hypocrisy of this Instagram guideline
On many of my “guideline violations” the reason given is either, “spam” (I assume this shows up when a troll has reported me) or, “sexual activity and solicitation”. I have fan pages, OnlyFans and Patreon, where I share full photo sets of my modelling work and photographs, plus behind the scenes content from shoots, videos, selfies and that sort of thing, for my mega fans and supporters. For example, normally when I do a photoshoot, I see anywhere from 10-50 photos per set, but only a few of my personal favorites get shared on social media…so the remaining photos and full sets are available on my fan pages. No one is selling or soliciting sex. I am simply sharing my work, art, and passion with those who want to see it, and doing so on a completely different platform and website from Instagram.
For YEARS I have had trolls set up fake accounts, steal my name and photos, then try to message and scam my followers out of money or to try to gain personal information and credit card numbers. When I report those accounts, it normally takes DOZENS of reports from multiple accounts, to get them taken down, if they do at all. In fact, most of the time, I am told those accounts do not violate guidelines, and they are left active. Instagram is RAMPANT with fake accounts trying to scam their users…so why aren’t they focusing on shutting THOSE accounts down. Same with the men who send me unsolicited dick picks, or disgusting sexually explicit, or violent messages. Whenever I get those, (which is unfortunately, quite often), and report them, I am told they aren’t breaking guidelines, and their accounts are left up, unpunished. Why is Instagram censoring what I share, but when I am subject to online bullying and intellectual property theft, I'm left with zero support or help. Literal online sexual harassment and assaults are left unpunished, yet artistic, creative and professional photos and posts are constantly being taken down, and have now resulted in my account and therefor my livelihood, being stripped away.
For YEARS I have had trolls set up fake accounts, steal my name and photos, then try to message and scam my followers out of money or to try to gain personal information and credit card numbers. When I report those accounts, it normally takes DOZENS of reports from multiple accounts, to get them taken down, if they do at all. In fact, most of the time, I am told those accounts do not violate guidelines, and they are left active. Instagram is RAMPANT with fake accounts trying to scam their users…so why aren’t they focusing on shutting THOSE accounts down. Same with the men who send me unsolicited dick picks, or disgusting sexually explicit, or violent messages. Whenever I get those, (which is unfortunately, quite often), and report them, I am told they aren’t breaking guidelines, and their accounts are left up, unpunished. Why is Instagram censoring what I share, but when I am subject to online bullying and intellectual property theft, I'm left with zero support or help. Literal online sexual harassment and assaults are left unpunished, yet artistic, creative and professional photos and posts are constantly being taken down, and have now resulted in my account and therefor my livelihood, being stripped away.
As much as this post is about MY account being deleted, this issue is not just effecting me. This is happening to SO many other users, particularly, female, and LGBTQA+, plus size, curvy bodied, BIPOC, disabled and marginalised users, models, and content creators, as well as, photographers, dancers, activists, small businesses, and those that post anything even remotely sexy or “taboo”. Sexuality isn’t wrong or shameful, nor should it be hidden. Infact, censoring it is only hurting and hindering users. Sure, it’s not for everyone, but why is it we are being hidden and punished instead of those people just not following an account they don’t like? Same with our bodies. All bodies should be represented and celebrated and no one body type is better than the other. I WISH when I was growing up, I was able to see women of multiple body types in their underwear, and swimsuits, living their best lives and being praised and honoured in society and in the media. It would have saved me (and I can guarantee, countless others) years of hating and trying to change my body, engaging in disordered eating habits, and constantly feeling like I wasn’t good enough, or pretty enough. Representation matters, and it is so unfair that so many accounts are being unreasonably censored and deleted. Our sexualty and bodies should be celebrated and expressed however it makes us, as individuals, comfortable. For some people, modesty is sexy, and for others, being free of clothing is sexy, and they are both right and so is everything in between. As long as you are safe, and comfortable, and all parties involved are consenting adults, then there is nothing shameful about sex, your body, or how you choose to live your life, share your story, or earn money for that matter, and we should allow everyone to express themselves, and live their lives, however they see fit. Just as no one should be pressured into doing or posting anything that makes them uncomfortable, we should also not be judging and censoring those whose comfort levels don’t match our own. Society, and social media, need to be more open minded, and less judgemental. It takes all different types of people, all comfort levels, modesty levels, life experiences, passions, lives, and loves to make up this world. If everyone felt the same way, and acted and posted and dressed all the same…what a boring world that would be. I certainly don’t expect you to like everything you see on line, but next time you see something you don't like on social media (unless of course someone is being hurt, or abused, or lives are being endangered) just scroll past. Don't report the post, or leave a nasty comment…just live and let live. Because a post that you might see as lewd or showing too much skin, another person might see and gain comfort and confidence in themselves and the fact that they see a body like theirs online. For every post you might think is oversharing, TMI, or “attention seeking” someone else might relate to, or find comfort in it, and it might help them get through the day. If you don't like something someone has posted, then don't follow that account.
Losing my account isn’t just about my career, portfolio and income…that’s a big chunk of it, but really, my career and all the hard work I did, doesn’t just cease to exist or count because I lost my Instagram. At one point, I thought losing my account would mean the end of my career, but I have had a huge wave of love and support come my way since I’ve lost it, and I am lucky to have solid connections within my community and will be able to continue to work with businesses, clients, sponsors, and photographers who know they can count on the quality of work I produce. Even if I never get my original account back, I know I am strong and successful enough to carry on, and I will continue to build and grow my career, and new account. I may need to work extra hard now to rebuild my following, but my hustle and drive has never, and will never be “disabled”.
The amount of followers I had, then or now, does not define my success, and deleting my account, doesn’t delete all of the amazing accomplishments and opportunities I’ve had; however, the part I will never get back is all the lost community, and connections, as well as the years of hard work I put into thought out, meaningful captions, and posts. Along with losing my account, I’ve also lost memories of past trips and experiences, unforgettable events, and special moments in my life. I’ve lost photos of loved ones and friends who I haven’t seen in years, and some of those who aren’t here anymore. Ive lost communications and beautiful messages sent between so many people I love. I've lost connections with THOUSANDS of people and contacts I’ve made throughout my 15 year career and 10 years with that account, and I can only hope they will find my new account again. That is why this really hurts, why it’s so personal, and why I really want my account back.
The amount of followers I had, then or now, does not define my success, and deleting my account, doesn’t delete all of the amazing accomplishments and opportunities I’ve had; however, the part I will never get back is all the lost community, and connections, as well as the years of hard work I put into thought out, meaningful captions, and posts. Along with losing my account, I’ve also lost memories of past trips and experiences, unforgettable events, and special moments in my life. I’ve lost photos of loved ones and friends who I haven’t seen in years, and some of those who aren’t here anymore. Ive lost communications and beautiful messages sent between so many people I love. I've lost connections with THOUSANDS of people and contacts I’ve made throughout my 15 year career and 10 years with that account, and I can only hope they will find my new account again. That is why this really hurts, why it’s so personal, and why I really want my account back.
error message that pops up when I try to log into my account
So, what can I do? Instagram must have a “help” line right? Customer service? Nope! The only way for me to get ahold of Instagram is to “report an error” via the app’s help section, but who knows where those reports go or if anyone ever sees them, or even cares? When I try to log into my old account, it tells me my account has been disabled for “violating terms of service”, and gives me a chance to dispute it, and send in an appeal. So of course, I try multiple times a day to log into my account, and each time, I send a report in, and I will continue to do so daily…but again, who knows if anyone is even seeing those reports. Unfortunately, It seems that Instagram only cares about you, or gives you any real help, if you are a multi billion dollar company spending sizable amounts of money on advertising, or an A list celebrity with millions of followers and global influence…otherwise…you’re left in the dust. And for an app with billions of users, that is just completely unacceptable, and absolutely needs to change.
If you would like to help, you can follow my new backup account @rubyroxxbackup, as well as my other social media pages. You can send in reports to IG by going to Settings > Help > Report a Problem and tell them @rubyroxxmodel account has been unfairly disabled. You can help spread the word by sharing a post from my new account to your story or with any friends or followers of yours who you think would want to follow me. Or, you could share this blog post if any of it resonated with you.
There is a petition created by @bloggeronpole (who is an incredible artist, doctor, pole dance instructor, and activist for this topic, whose account has also been deleted multiple times) that you can sign. It already has 120K+ signatures, and it’s goal is to stop Instagram from unfairly censoring nudity and sexuality. The link to sign is below.
If you would like to help, you can follow my new backup account @rubyroxxbackup, as well as my other social media pages. You can send in reports to IG by going to Settings > Help > Report a Problem and tell them @rubyroxxmodel account has been unfairly disabled. You can help spread the word by sharing a post from my new account to your story or with any friends or followers of yours who you think would want to follow me. Or, you could share this blog post if any of it resonated with you.
There is a petition created by @bloggeronpole (who is an incredible artist, doctor, pole dance instructor, and activist for this topic, whose account has also been deleted multiple times) that you can sign. It already has 120K+ signatures, and it’s goal is to stop Instagram from unfairly censoring nudity and sexuality. The link to sign is below.
Thank you so much for all your love and support in this unfortunate and unfair situation. And, thank you for following and sharing my new account, and doing whatever you can to support me and other users whose accounts have been unfairly censored and disabled by Instagram. I don't know if this blog post will change anything, or if it will help me get my account back, but, I had to share my story, truth, and concerns, if for no other reason, than because writing is therapeutic to me, and I needed to feel like I was doing something to take control of the situation, and not just giving up and letting Instagram win. They need to be held accountable and hear how their unfair censorship, and wrongful deletion of accounts is effecting their users. No matter what, I will not change who I am or what I do. I will continue to do the work I love and use my voice to spread a message of love and acceptance, and to stand up to oppression and discrimination in any form. I have always stood up to online bullies, and they will NOT win...no matter if in the form of trolls, haters, guidelines, or Instagram itself. They can try to delete my account and my posts, but they will never delete my passion and drive.
I love Valentine's day, because any holiday that celebrates LOVE is a holiday worth celebrating to me...plus, its a GREAT excuse to spoil yourself (or your lover) with some sexy new lingerie. No matter if you are looking for something sweet to give yourself a gift, or for something spicy to seduce your Valentine, Yandy has got you COVERED! Here are some of my favorite sets from the Valentine's collection this year, and don't forget to use my code RUBYROXX20 to save 20% off your purchase!
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Photo Just for Her Boudoir
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Playboy X Yandy Chain of Command Bra Set
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Lots of Love. xxoo Ruby
Lots of Love. xxoo Ruby
I love New Years, and I really enjoy writing this blog post every year. I love taking stock of my life throughout the past 12 months, seeing how I've grown, struggled, and changed, and sharing what I’ve learned, and my hopes for the upcoming 12 months. I don't believe in New Years Resolutions, but I do believe in setting goals and intentions, and the power and importance of checking in with ourselves, looking inward, adjusting, and moving forward.
Be sure to read till the end for a big announcement in what you can expect from me this year!
Be sure to read till the end for a big announcement in what you can expect from me this year!
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MY 2021 WINS AND GROWTH
2021…where do I begin. I had such high hopes for 2021, and as usual, my motivation at the beginning of the year was very high. In 2020, I was asked by multiple people to do a podcast. I surveyed my followers and audience to see if it would be something that would be of interest. The demand seemed to be there, and people seemed excited about the idea, so, at the very beginning of 2021, I took a leap of faith and started my podcast “Ruby’s Tuesday Review”. I had a vision of a twice monthly pod, where I spoke on subjects that were of great importance to me, such as, the modelling industry, self love and confidence, mental health, and more. I also wanted to bring in friends and colleagues who could add a different voice and perspective to the conversation. I had a lot of fun doing it, and produced 8 episodes, but honestly, I found it to be extremely time consuming, and it wasn’t getting as much traction as I had hoped. Not to mention, it is VERY difficult to make any money at podcasting unless you are MEGA successful, and, during a pandemic especially, I couldn’t justify diving head first into something that wasn’t at least helping me pay bills in some way. I wasn’t enjoying it as much as I had hoped, because I was finding it so stressful, and it had also added a huge work load to my schedule. The planning, recording, editing, promoting etc…it was a lot. I think in order to have a successful podcast, it really has to be a very strong passion of yours, in order to continually feel inspired to do the work. I mean, I suppose that's true for any sort of career, business, or project. I am a hard worker and hustle has never been an issue for me, but, with everything else going on in my life and the world, I was finding it really hard to find balance and motivation. So I put a pause on the podcast work to focus on endeavours that would bring in more income, and fill my creative cup a little more. I still really enjoy the podcast, and the wonderful conversations that I had, and variety of topics discussed, and would like to do more episodes, when I have more time and motivation to do so. I realised this year, that as much as I love my work, and have huge ambitions and goals for myself, I also need to be sure not to take on too much, and not over excerpt or over work myself, and that's exactly what I felt I was doing with the podcast. This year really showed me that in order to do my job well, I first need to take care of myself, because if I don't, my motivation and drive actually starts to dwindle and I end up getting far less done. Then, in turn, I am hard on myself for not getting enough done, and it is a burden on my mental health. Its a vicious cycle, but the answer and solution is always, more self love…so thats what Im trying to bring into 2022 with me. So for those who keep asking when to expect more episodes….I don’t have an answer for you QUITE yet, but when I have a little more time and motivation, I have some great new ideas and topics I would love to discuss
I also had some amazing opportunities career wise this year, despite, still not being able to travel to the extent that I would have liked. I was fortunate enough to do some fit modelling work for Lululemon and their expanded size range, through the last months of 2020 and the beginning of 2021. It was awesome to work with such a globally recognized company, who is Vancouver based, especially to help them with their desperately needed extended size range. I was also able to create and shoot an incredible campaign for the Playboy X Yandy Swim collection, which was available in extended sizes for the first time! That was a highlight of my year for sure, and one of my favorite shoots, that I got to do with 2 dear friends. I continued my work as a part of the Yandy Vixen program, which I absolutely love, and was able to shoot with a solid group of amazing sponsors, brands, clients, and creatives throughout the year. I was on the cover, for the 2nd time in my career, of FabUPlus Magazine for their Spring 2021 issue, which was available on newsstands across North America. I also made the cover of Retro Lovely PinUp magazine in February 2021. I continued to shoot select creatives with some of my favourite artists (when it was safe to do so), and also was able to continue to self shoot and practice my own photography skills. I even sub-leased a beautiful studio space for a good chunk of the year, which was amazing, and I realised through that experience that I want my OWN studio one day. Sub leasing was great. I got so much done, and felt so inspired, but there were things I would do differently, and would want to change, and as a sub leaser, I didn’t have that power or option. So, hopefully, a studio space of my own will be in my future within the next year or two.
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I shot my 8th annual calendar, with Alicia Marie Photography. Our original plan was to shoot it in Palm Springs, but that plan was put on hold due to the pandemic ruining SO many travel plans this year….so, we decided instead to capture the beauty of our home, and the Canadian wilderness, so we shot it entirely in Banff National Park over 2 crazy days in October. It was FREEZING cold out, but we absolutely lucked out on sunshiney weather, and we managed to create my favourite calendar to date! The cover was shot at Lake Louise, (with a ton of people watching btw), and that spot holds a special place in my heart. Not only were my Grandparents married at Lake Louise, but my GREAT Grandmothers Grand Piano is on display in the lobby of the Chateau Lake Louise. Shooting in that same location, I really felt my Grandmas energy, and that she was cheering me on. My Grandma and I were very close, and very similar. She was also a model, had the most incredible life and sense of style, and was the life of every party even well into her 90’s. She was always cheering me on in anything I chose to do, and I miss her so much. However, shooting this calendar, in a spot that she loved, really helped me feel connected to her, and I know she is proud of me. My 2022 Calendar sold in RECORD numbers and is now sold out. That crazy 2 day shoot also produced some of my favourite images of my entire career. I am SO proud of this calendar, and I’m considering printing a limited amount more, if there would be any interest…so if you missed out and would like a copy…let me know in the comments!
THE STRUGGLES...
.So, now that we've covered the good, lets talk about the not so good, the bad, and the ugly. Well, first, the obvious…the pandemic stuck around and seems to have only gotten worse. It felt like everytime things started to get better, and hope started to return, a new variant or wave came through. It fucked up SO many plans for me…but I know I'm not the only one by a long shot. I had to cancel so many fun things I had planned. I was planning to be in California for 4-6 weeks this year…that had to be cancelled as the land borders weren’t open yet, and I would need to drive. I had to cancel trips to Mexico, Hawaii, Montreal, Toronto, and Vegas too, all because of the pandemic, and all because I just didn’t feel safe, or comfortable travelling yet. I am high risk, with my asthma, and my entire family has health issues that make them high risk, so, as much as a vacation would have helped my mental health, I just couldn’t justify the risk. I would have never forgiven myself if I had travelled, and then gotten sick or passed it on to someone I love. I did travel within my beautiful province of BC, and even ventured to Alberta and Saskatchewan when numbers were low, and those tips were wonderful, but, I cannot wait to get on a plane again, and more importantly, I cant wait to get on a plane when its SAFE to do so for me and those around me. I am SO happy and grateful this year, to be double vaccinated *come on booster shot* and that my family is all vaccinated and as safe as can be at the moment. I know not everyone is as fortunate, so I count my lucky stars daily. I was asked to join the "This Is Our Shot" campaign, which is totally volunteer based program spreading information and educating canadians on the importance, and safety of vaccinations. Its a cause and campaign I believe in fiercely, and am so proud to be apart of it, along side some Canadian icons, such as Ryan Reynolds, Sarah McLachlan, Clara Hughes, Jann Arden, and many many more!
Speaking of mental health, mine has not been the best this year. At the end of 2020, I decided to go off my anxiety/depression meds. I did this for a few reasons. I had been on the same medications for 5 or 6 years now, and felt they had stopped being as effective. I was still quite depressed and anxious with them, and I forgot what I was like without them. It was bad timing admittedly…but, when I made that choice, I had no idea what 2021 would have in store, and in turn, I actually ended up making my depression far worse. I’m very good at hiding my mental health symptoms when I am out in the world…but inside I felt like dying, and during some of my darkest days this year, I thought that maybe if I died, the world would be better without me, and I wouldn’t have to suffer anymore. It isn't so much that I didn't want to be alive anymore...it's that I didn't want to be in pain, or feel like a burden anymore. It’s the first time I had had those thoughts in a while, and it really scared me, so I sought out therapy again after taking a bit of a pause, and reminded myself that there is no shame in admitting that I needed help. I also found a brand new family doctor (I had been searching for one for over 5 years) and got a new prescription to help with my mental health symptoms. It’s so nice to have a family doctor who knows my medical history, both physically and mentally, and who I feel actually listens, cares, and supports me. I was also diagnosed with ADHD this year, at 37 years old. My diagnosis helped me sort though some of my thought and behaviour patterns, and I am learning new ways to cope with my new diagnosis everyday. I share because I am not ashamed of my mental health status or how I handle (or mis-handle) the symptoms, and there is no shame in needing and receiving help and support. I am happy to say that I am feeling better at the end of the year than I did at the start of 2021, but I have a long way to go still in my mental health journey. Actually, the past month, hasn’t been great, and I still have bad, sad, and hopeless days, but mental health is a daily, life long journey…and even through my struggles, I feel like I am on the right path, and have the support I need. That's quite a turn around from how I felt at the beginning of the year, and that is what truly matters.
This year, I also lost my Instagram account….twice. The first time in April, it was back within 24 hours…this second time however, which happened mid December, and seems to be more challenging to get back this time. Ive been sending reports and appeals in multiple times a day but haven’t heard a thing from Instagram. I also got on Tiktok this year…and then had my Tik Tok account deleted at 80K followers…so I kinda gave up on TikTok this year too. Social media has NOT been kind to me, and many others this year…but I haven’t given up hope yet, and will have much more on that, in a separate blog post, i'll be releasing later this week, so be sure to check back for that. In the meantime, please make sure your following my facebook page (www.facebook.com/rubyroxxmodel) and my backup Instagram account (www.instagram.com/rubyroxxbackup), and if you want to support me further and see much more, exclusive content, you won’t find on social media, consider pledging to one of my fan pages!
WHAT'S TO COME?
So whats next for Ruby? Well, this is where that “Big Announcement” that I promised comes into play.
For years, I had been saying that when I turn 35 I would retire from modelling. I thought that by 35, I would be aged out of the industry, and would have accomplished most things that would have wanted to in my career. I have been modelling since I was 19, and this year, I will be turning 38! While my view has changed, and I continued modelling beyond 35, I do feel like its time to start slowing down and making time for other passions and things I want to try out or get better at. At the end of 2019, I decided that my age wouldn’t stop me from modelling and that I don't have a shelf life in this industry, and I still believe that! I never want to fully give up on modelling because I really do love it, and it fills my creative cup, boosts my confidence, and has given me so many amazing friends, and opportunities throughout my life, but, I have accomplished almost everything that I wanted to accomplish in this industry. There are other things I want to learn, and do in my life, and if I continue on the path im on, i'll never have time to do any of it! So, as of, right now basically, I am semi-retiring from modelling. Ill still likely do 1-2 shoots a month (as opposed to the 5-10 I was doing this past year), but I will be FAR pickier about the shoots I do. Bucket list, and dream photoshoots, will take precedent, as well as new exciting creative shoots and dream team opportunities. So, this certainly isn’t the end of my modelling, but there will be a shift. Also, with my Instagram account being taken down, it really feels like the universe is trying to lead me down a different path. So, what else will I be doing you ask? For starters, I am planning to up my own photography game! I have already signed up for a couple amazing photography retreat/workshops for 2022, and cannot wait to get on the OTHER side of the camera a bit more! I also want to do more writing, both for magazines, a book I’m working on, and for this blog. I would also like to teach more workshops, and share my knowledge of the industry, how to get started, be safe, build confidence, pose, market yourself and more! I plan to do more workshops, with Dane Halo and Nicole Nu, for the Curves Ahead Workshop, as well as doing some by myself, both in person (when its safe) and online via zoom. I would like to do more design and maybe design my own line of lingerie this year. And as I mentioned before, I would love to have my own studio space, and have more time to commit to producing more podcast episodes. And of course, if its safe to do so, I would love to travel MUCH more in 2022! So, with less time spent modelling, ill have more time for other creative endeavours that I have wanted to jump into for quite a while. Ill be saying NO alot more, but in turn will be able to say YES, and designate time to projects and ideas that I have wanted to focus on for a while. So this isn’t the end of Ruby by a long stretch, but 2022 will bring out a new version of Ruby, which I cannot wait to share with you!
For years, I had been saying that when I turn 35 I would retire from modelling. I thought that by 35, I would be aged out of the industry, and would have accomplished most things that would have wanted to in my career. I have been modelling since I was 19, and this year, I will be turning 38! While my view has changed, and I continued modelling beyond 35, I do feel like its time to start slowing down and making time for other passions and things I want to try out or get better at. At the end of 2019, I decided that my age wouldn’t stop me from modelling and that I don't have a shelf life in this industry, and I still believe that! I never want to fully give up on modelling because I really do love it, and it fills my creative cup, boosts my confidence, and has given me so many amazing friends, and opportunities throughout my life, but, I have accomplished almost everything that I wanted to accomplish in this industry. There are other things I want to learn, and do in my life, and if I continue on the path im on, i'll never have time to do any of it! So, as of, right now basically, I am semi-retiring from modelling. Ill still likely do 1-2 shoots a month (as opposed to the 5-10 I was doing this past year), but I will be FAR pickier about the shoots I do. Bucket list, and dream photoshoots, will take precedent, as well as new exciting creative shoots and dream team opportunities. So, this certainly isn’t the end of my modelling, but there will be a shift. Also, with my Instagram account being taken down, it really feels like the universe is trying to lead me down a different path. So, what else will I be doing you ask? For starters, I am planning to up my own photography game! I have already signed up for a couple amazing photography retreat/workshops for 2022, and cannot wait to get on the OTHER side of the camera a bit more! I also want to do more writing, both for magazines, a book I’m working on, and for this blog. I would also like to teach more workshops, and share my knowledge of the industry, how to get started, be safe, build confidence, pose, market yourself and more! I plan to do more workshops, with Dane Halo and Nicole Nu, for the Curves Ahead Workshop, as well as doing some by myself, both in person (when its safe) and online via zoom. I would like to do more design and maybe design my own line of lingerie this year. And as I mentioned before, I would love to have my own studio space, and have more time to commit to producing more podcast episodes. And of course, if its safe to do so, I would love to travel MUCH more in 2022! So, with less time spent modelling, ill have more time for other creative endeavours that I have wanted to jump into for quite a while. Ill be saying NO alot more, but in turn will be able to say YES, and designate time to projects and ideas that I have wanted to focus on for a while. So this isn’t the end of Ruby by a long stretch, but 2022 will bring out a new version of Ruby, which I cannot wait to share with you!
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No matter how 2021 treated you, or what you wishes, dreams, and plans for 2022 are, I hope this new year brings everyone kindness, health, safety, healing, forgiveness, understanding, and love. I can't wait to see how this year unfolds, and am so fortunate to be able to share it all with you. So, from my home, heart, and family to yours, thank you for all your support, this past year, and next, and
HAPPY NEW YEAR!
The holiday season is officially in full swing, and whether you are looking to leave a little something sexy under the tree for your lover, or, want to wrap yourself up in some festive flirty looks, Yandy has you covered with a SUPER hot holiday collection, in a wide variety of sizes and prices that cant be beat! Here are some of my favorite looks from this years collection!
Plus Size Clara Bow Bra Set
Turn up the heat in this sexy plus size bra set featuring underwire, cupless bra with a sexy lace trim, an over sized mesh center bow accent across the front, a hook and eye back closure, and a matching lace panty with a scalloped lace waistband, and a thong cut back. The material is very thin and sheer, and there isn't a lot of support, but in sets like this, support is not needed, because when you're wearing something as sexy as this set, it wont stay on for very long! Available in this vibrant red, or classic black, for only $25.95! PLUS save 20% with my code RUBYROXX20 at checkout!
Snowy Marabou Lingerie Costume
Baby it's cold outside! Heat it up the bedroom, and kiss under the mistletoe in this Plus Size Snowy Marabou lingerie costume featuring a velvet and lace off-the-shoulder bra with a white marabou trim, a lace-up front detail with gold grommets, a slip on style, and clear bra straps for a bit of extra support! Also includes a matching lace and velvet panty with a thin elastic waistband, scalloped edges, a satin bow accent, a criss-cross back detail, and a cheeky cut back. This set is SO cute and is only $34.95! Comes in sizes 1X/2X and 3X/4X, and don't forget to use my code RUBYROXX20 at checkout to save 20%
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She's Fur-ocious Bra Set
Bring bold seduction to the bedroom with this flirty plus size 3 piece bra set. Featuring satin demi underwire cups with a soft marabou trim, adjustable spaghetti straps with gold hardware, and a fishnet underbust band with a hook and eye back closure. Also includes a matching satin and fishnet garter belt with marabou trim, front lace-up detail, adjustable garter straps, and a matching g-string panty. This set comes in striking black, or, classic, christmas red and white. Only $36.95, but with my code RUBYROXX20, the price drops to under $30!
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All Wrapped Up Bustier
Unwrap a night of pleasure in this plus size bustier featuring a shiny stretch satin and mesh bodice with underwire, adjustable bow cups. The back features a beautiful ribbon lace-up detail, and the piece also has removable garter straps, and a matching thong. Stockings not included. This set has a nice soft stretch to it, and is adjustable to fit a wide variety of body types. It is only $25.95!!! And with my code RUBYROXX20, the price drops to just above $20! Wrap yourself in this and give yourself as the best gift this holiday season!
Thank you to Yandy for sponsoring this blog post, and, to Teresa Marie (@releasetheclam) for these photos! Have a very happy and safe, and sexy holiday everyone! xox
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Sparkle Mini Dress
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Stand out at the club in this sexy mini dress featuring a sheer bodice with an allover glittery design, a high neckline, convertible spaghetti straps that can be a halter top or shoulder straps with a tie back closure, and a curve hugging skirt. Only $15.95, plus save an additional 30% at checkout! Available in standard and plus sizes!
Cheetah Gal Bra Set
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Give your babe a sexy meow-ment in this sultry plus size bra set featuring sheer lace and leopard mesh cups, adjustable spaghetti straps, a strappy double elastic underbust with a hook and eye closure, and a matching strappy panty with a leopard mesh crotch, and a cheeky cut lace back. SO cute, comfortable, and a nice stretch. Available in standard and plus size, for only $23.95 PLUS an extra 30% off at checkout!
Come Hither Mesh Teddy
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Lock eyes with your lover in this stunning plus size teddy featuring sheer lace cups, a strappy bust detail with O-ring accents, adjustable shoulder straps with a lace center back panel, a sheer mesh and lace bodice, a hook and eye back closure, and a thong cut back. Available in black and lavender, in both straight and plus sizes, for only....$3.09!!! Yes, you read that right. Its not a typo...this gorgeous bodysuit is LESS THAN $4!!!!! You REALLY cant beat these deals so be sure to shop this weekend before stock sells out and prices rise again! Happy Shopping Friends!
Fall is here, the air is getting crisp, the leaves are changing colours, and its time to get cozy AND sexy, with Yandy's Fall Edit! A great mix of pieces for snuggly, or sexy times! Here are a few of my favorite pieces from the collection...and, don't forget, to save 20% off the entire website with my code RUBYROXX20
Ice Cold Onesie
Feeling blue? Time to excite the senses. Cozy meets sexy in this exclusive sleepwear onesie featuring an all over holiday print with long fitted sleeves, a V-neckline, snap button details, an adorable booty flap with button off trim, and a slim leg. The material is soft and stretchy, but also not too thick so you wont overheat. The perfect onesie for cooler nights and turning the heat up!! Only $31.95, and don't forget to save even more with my code RUBYROXX20
Waist of Time Bra Set
Your babe will have all their attention on you in this sexy plus size bra set featuring sheer lace cups with a criss-cross center bust detail, adjustable spaghetti straps, a hook and eye back closure, gold hardware, and a high waisted panty with removable adjustable garters, and a thong cut back. This set is available in 3 gorgeous colours, in sizes S-3X/4X, for under $30! The lace is so soft and sheer, and has a good amount of stretch. The bottoms come up nice and high for a flattering look. Save 20% with my code RUBYROXX20
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Don't Mesh With Me Lace Bra Set
Get ready to be risque in red! Bring on the pleasing and teasing in this sassy plus size bralette set featuring sheer mesh and lace cups with a scalloped trim, off-the-shoulder sleeves, and a matching panty with a cheeky cut back. It comes in a vibrant red and pink colour, and is under $30! Save 20% with code RUBYROXX20
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Flower Bed Dreams Teddy
Let yourself BLOOM in this sexy plus size teddy featuring sheer floral mesh and lace cups, a plunging neckline with an underbust band, adjustable shoulder straps, a strappy back with O-ring accent, a sheer floral mesh bodice with lace sides, and a cheeky cut back. I would suggest sizing up in this one if possible as it is slightly on the smaller side, but, with that being said, it does hug your body in all the right places. The print on this teddy is SO striking, you'll be sure to make a lasting impression! Available in sizes Small - 3X, and don't forget my code RUBYROXX20 to save 20%
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Halloween is my absolute favorite holiday of the year! Its no surprise that I love dressing up, eating candy, and anything spooky or mysterious...so its only natural that I love this time of year!
Yandy has ALL your costume options, and needs, in sizes S-5X! And their prices CANNOT be beat! PLUS you can save an additional 20% off with my code
RUBYROXX20
Happy Shopping, and HAPPY HALLOWEEN!
All Photos Friday Eve Photography
BAD RELIGION COSTUME
Love dancing with the devil this Halloween! Make them worship you in this Bad Religion costume featuring a stunning red velvet mock neck dress with a sheer upside down cross detail and a sky-high slit, a built-in panty, means the fit is absolutely perfect, and a matching horn headpiece ties the look together. (Staff and shoes not included.) This beautiful costume is great for a halloween party or gala, or for just tempting devilish delights at home. Available for under $100, in sizes Small - 5X! Save 20% with my code RUBYROXX20
SHE'S ALL BAT COSTUME
It's time to spread your wings! Turn their world upside down in this She's All Bat costume featuring a black sequin romper with molded underwire cups, adjustable spaghetti straps, a matching mini tutu, bat wings, a bow choker, and an adorable bat and rose headpiece. ALL this, also for under $100, and available in sizes S-5X! Save 20% with code RUBYROXX20
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PLAYBOY WORK OUT BUNNY COSTUME
Let's Get Physical! Drip sweat in style as you master all the moves in this Playboy officially licensed Workout Bunny costume featuring a purple metallic bodysuit with pink bunny logo tube top, matching bunny logo leggings, yellow leg warmers, matching wrist cuffs, and a blue sweat band. (Earrings and shoes not included.) This costume is SO cute and nice and stretchy! Its available in sizes S-2X, for just over $100, but you can save 20% with my code RUBYROXX20 bringing the cost down to under $100! This set is so cute...I may even keep it out past halloween to take to the gym or arobics class!
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BUTTERY BABE COSTUME
You're so addicting! You 'butter' believe you'll be their favorite snack in this adorable costume. Keep them wanting more in this finger-licking Buttery Babe costume, featuring a red and white striped romper with 3D latex popcorn detail, an attached red and yellow tulle bustle, a yellow "popcorn" belt, footless thigh high stockings, a matching purse, and a popcorn headpiece! All 6 pieces, for only $130, but don't forget to save 20% with code RUBYROXX20
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CRAZY QUINN COSTUME
Hey Puddin'! Who's looking for a little trouble? Keep them on their toes in this plus size Crazy Quinn costume featuring a red and blue bike short romper, a halter style with a keyhole front, white diamond screen prints on the bust, a black belt with chain detail, red "leather" gloves, a studded chain necklace, and matching bracelets. The bodysuit fits SO well, very true to size, and has a ton of stretch, so will be VERY comfortable while you're getting WILD this Halloween. (Wig, Hammer, and Shoes, not included). This is one of the only costumes featured in this blog, that is an exclusively plus size costume, and is available in sizes 1X-5X for under $65! Plus, don't forget those CRAZY savings, and use my code RUBYROXX20 for an even better price!
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Which of these costumes is your favorite? What will you dress up as for Halloween? Weather you're staying in to pass out candy, or going out to get wild...Yandy has you covered with SO many great costumes in a variety of sizes and prices. Happy Halloween, and Happy Shopping!
The ICONIC Hustler Hollywood reached out to me and asked me to style some of their sexy lingerie pieces and turn them into some costumes for a Halloween spent at home! Shop via the links here, and save 15% with my code RUBY15
All Photos Heather Glasgow Photography
All Photos Heather Glasgow Photography
WITCH
HUSTLER PVC Cutout Mesh Bra is gorgeous and exquisitely sexy. It comes in sizes 38B to 42G, and made of high quality materials. The sheer mesh has a beautiful stretch while its PVC lined design shapes perfectly. Its cutout design and harness detail amplifies your cleavage for a sexy shape and look. This bra has thick adjustable straps with a hook and eye closure. Matching panty and garter available, and sold separately. (stockings and hat not included) Save 15% with code RUBY15
SCHOOL GIRL
Live out your sexiest schoolgirl fantasies in this plaid skirt from Teachers Pet. Pair it with a pair of thigh highs or heels and your lover will be begging for another lesson in the bedroom.
This skirt is very short (more of a belt honestly) and made from cotton and polyester, with an adjustable velcro closure. Fits sizes 2-20. Don't forget my code RUBY15 to save some $$$
One Size Fits Most: Sizes 2-14 | 26"-34" waist
One Size Plus Fits Most: Sizes 14-20 | 38"-42" waist
Tie up top also available from Hustler. Lingerie is the same set as above. Stockings and boots sold separately.
This skirt is very short (more of a belt honestly) and made from cotton and polyester, with an adjustable velcro closure. Fits sizes 2-20. Don't forget my code RUBY15 to save some $$$
One Size Fits Most: Sizes 2-14 | 26"-34" waist
One Size Plus Fits Most: Sizes 14-20 | 38"-42" waist
Tie up top also available from Hustler. Lingerie is the same set as above. Stockings and boots sold separately.
ALLEY CAT
Here Kitty Kitty....Show off your seductive side in this 3pc set. This set includes a lace and leopard print satin-like bra, thong and garter belt. The bra features soft cups and underwire support along with adjustable straps and a hook and eye closure at the back. The thong showcases leopard print in the front and delicate lace in the rear to perfectly accentuate your backside. This set includes rhinestone and gold hardware to elegantly complement the black and leopard print. Corset and ears not included. Save 15% with my code RUBY15
LADIES & GENTLEMEN, FOR MORE THAN YOUR VIEWING PLEASURE... WELCOME TO THE HALL OF KINKS. A HAVEN WHERE FREEDOM OF EROTIC CHOICE REIGNS AND JUDGEMENT IS FORBIDDEN. HERE WE REVEAL ALL YOUR DIRTY LITTLE SECRETS. SO TELL ME, WHAT'S YOUR FANTASY?
BDSM
Test the limits in this seductive plus size bra and skirt set featuring sheer fishnet cups, a high neckline with halter ties, a hand loop leash with a detachable clip, and a hook back closure. Also comes with a matching skirt with a high waistband, and a loose skater hem, and a matching fishnet face veil. Perfect for exploring your sexy side. The fishnet is soft, stretchy and top is adjustable. The matching veil takes this outfit over the edge. Available in standard and plus sizing for under $20!!! And save 20% with code RUBYROXX20
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Pair with this quilted hand whip/flogger for some extra fun!
ROLE PLAY
Who doesn't love a little role play action in the bedroom? Clean up your act in this Anita Maid lingerie costume featuring wet look bodysuit with underwire cups, a notched V detail, adjustable straps. Also includes a two layer mesh skirt with a lace trim, attached apron, adjustable garter straps with wrap-around lace leg garters, and a matching headpiece. Keeping clean while getting dirty...whats not to love. I LOVE this maid costume because of the sexy wet look material, and flirty details. Its really comfortable, has nice stretch, and adjustability, and its available in sizes Small to 4X, for under $50! Save an additional 20% with code RUBYROXX20
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VINYL/LATEX/WET LOOK
I LOVE a vinyl or latex look, not only for the sexy look of it, but also the way it feels against my skin. Rock your babe's world in this alluring and provocative chemise, featuring vinyl cups, a choker neckline with silver rivet accents, and a sexy silver link chain leash, matching wrist cuffs, a strappy, sexy, open cage style back. This chemise SCREAMS sexy and will set your lover a blaze. The material is soft and stretchy, and will fit a wide variety of sizes. Available in standard and plus sizes, for just over $30! Save 20% with my code RUBYROXX20
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